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With Love Mardiana Ahmad: With or Without You

Monday, February 8, 2010

With or Without You

One of my guy friend posted something on his FB's wall, about being single or in a relationship. He said sometimes he loves to have someone to love him, take care of him adn his feelings, and sometime he said he wanna go single. So the question here which he need to settle is; Being with or without You.



But I can also recall a lot of people that are in relationships and they are miserable. They’re not happy at all. In fact, it’s like they are in prison. Many of them are trapped and they’d give anything to be single. They’d give anything to be in your shoes today.Being single may not always be a bad thing. Break-ups hurt us all most of da time, but at some level, you might even be relieved for getting away from a manipulative or an abusive relationship....just take Rihana in this case. So I guess it is better to be single than to be with someone you don't even like or some1 with da potential to hurt your feeling. 





But when we are in love (I was), everything will be so beautiful and enjoyable. We learn to accept our love one as they are, learn how to compromise to one another and even learn about ourselves. Being in relationship most slightly will change us  to both good or da bad side. It's rili important to us to THINK what's da best thing for da relationship. 



With or without da one we called someone to love and to share will fairly affected someone stated of mind. Some people will do better in anything they do with da support of their love one, and vice-versa. But to do well in danything is da matter of your own determination to do it. Although your love one always be there to support you but you lack of da determination to go for it, then it will be totally useless. 

Some people will just too confused, if they need to be in relationship or stay single. For me personally being with someone will teach us about commitment in relationship and also understanding to one another. Being single will require us to love ourselves so dat we can see da real "US". As some people don't even know themselves as people can see. 

It may be true dat having some1 can help add to your happiness and fulfillment. I believe dat can occur and does occur when you find the right person that suits you.




Being in relationship will required us to have a deep conversation to one another as da communication will bring da 2 much more closer.

In the end...it's all about love. You will know what's da best in your life. You will know when it's time to taken with love or stay single...my advise follow your heart and see where it's leads you.


.....To Be In Love , is to be HAPPY ^_^

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